Mama Monday – Parenting Under the Weather

It happens about once every “winter” season. Somehow, someway, a cold or flu makes its way into my house.  Last year, it was the flu, and my beautiful daughter was the culprit.  She picked it up at daycare, and whether its because she got her flu shot, or because she’s SuperBaby, she beat it after only a couple days of crankiness and sniffles. But my husband and I got it BAD. Three weeks bad. So bad we had to send that kiddo to the in-laws for a few days because we were too sick to even move bad.  And that almost happened, AGAIN this past week.

This time it was a doozy of a cold– and it hit me and my husband at pretty much the same time. The little lady was unaffected (thank goodness). But the experience reminded me of how difficult parenting and enforcing “the rules” can be when you’re not feeling 100%.

A week of quick and easy meals and allowing our little one to watch TV on weekdays led to a meltdown today when we returned to “normal”– which consists of lots of veggies and no TV (except for weekends). What’s crazy though, is she wasn’t even watching that much TV, and it was only for that one week, but apparently it was enough for her to fully expect to watch an episode of Mickey Mouse upon arrival from daycare, and her shouts of “I WANT MICKEY!!!!!!!” while sprawled out on the floor, complete with stomping feet and rivers of tears were enough to make me want to cry right along with her.

It really is amazing how such a short period of time can influence a child’s perception and expectations, which makes me stress even more about whether I’m getting it right. Is there damage done when you coast for a week on the rules, for whatever reason (in this case, being under the weather?) I know that it’s unrealistic for parents to be 100% on their game, 100% consistent, 100% of the time, but what’s the right mix to strive for?

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Mama Monday – Pedicures Anyone?

If you are anything like me, you take care of everyone in the house first and then if, you have time and more like energy left over you do something for yourself….sound familiar?

I know and everyone tells you that you are a better mom/wife/partner/everything if you do take time for yourself, so I did just that this weekend and took a couple of delicious hours just for myself!

Ok, so I did get the car washed – but I sat in the sun by myself for 30 minutes WITH MY EYES CLOSED – can’t do that with a 13 month & 3 1/2 year old with you. I then treated myself to a juice smoothie and headed over to the nail salon for a pedicure and mini-massage. Maybe the best three hours I have had in a couple of months!

You don’t have to make a big production out of taking time for yourself – just do simple things that give you a chance to just be.

Kick your feet up everyone once in awhile….I promise, you deserve it!

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What’s For Dinner Wednesday?

Summer has officially arrived here in the Bay Area and I’m craving sushi now more than ever. A girlfriend and regular dining companion of mine recently announced her pregnancy (Yay!) but alas, it means no more sushi dates for us for the remainder of the year. Of course we can go elsewhere and I can have sushi on my own, but it just got me thinking…

In addition to caffeine and alcohol, women who are pregnant and breastfeeding are advised to avoid/cut back on these foods.  The thought of 9+ months without sushi, brie, prosciutto, and wine — some of my faves! — sounds rough! Which foods did or do you miss most while pregnant?

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House rules?

Running through our local park last week was more of an obstacle course since a brood of wild ducks and geese have seemingly taken over. Not only do I have to dodge the birds themselves, but my household rule to remove shoes when entering our home was only reaffirmed when I gave up trying to sidestep the presents they were leaving behind everywhere. Though I don’t yet have little ones crawling around, I enjoy yoga and stretching on a daily basis so much of the time I am sitting or lying on the floor — sometimes face down — and I know I personally wouldn’t be happy picking up or coming face to face with anything I tracked in from the park. Or a public restroom. What about your family? Do you remove shoes when entering your home?

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